First, let me get one thing straight. Women have shitloads of troubles, but finding dick is none of them. We still get paid less, are instructed from early age with society’s irrational rules and no matter what we do, almost half of the population (or more) still underrates our capabilities. But dick serves itself on a goddamn unexpected and unwanted plate anywhere and anytime. So apart from men in unhappy, disfunctional, fucked up relationships, men get mostly assulted by other men. That’s why I’m taking the side of the girls this time.
For men finding vagina might be a ‘tiny’ bit more difficult. I would’ve loved to see that the worldwide distribution of porn through the internet, caused somehow to decrease rape, but the thing is that it only gets more vicious and creative. For the record, I am using dick and vagina because these are not dirty words, as sex isn’t one either. Biology, people. Dirty is what you make it.
We need to get rid of the terribly habit of making sex something dirty and disfunctional. Sex is natural. Sex is fine. Sex is healthy. Sex is great. If both (no matter how many people join in) agree to the act! Nowadays, we seem rightfully shocked when hearing that women in India get randomly touched and rubbed on the streets.
Meaningwhile Western countries got so damn stuck up bitches, who believe they’re too sophisticated and educated to let anything of this happen here. May I please remind you: #FreeKesha #nomoneyforvictimsofassaultbychurch #mansetfreeforrapebecausewomanflirtedbeforeshechangedhermind.
The news is getting me so damn pissed off, I couldn’t stay put. In English, as a support to the #FreeKesha case.
So, in Western countries when something bad happens to you, you go to court. Meanly ruled by stuck up arrogant men, responsable for the whole vision that rape doesn’t happen anymore. Going to the police after rape or assault, is the MOST embarressing and confrontating thing there could ever be. There is absolutely no doubt that fighting for your rights means you have to live through it a hundred times more, it will hunt you even more, be made public even if it’s the most personal thing in the world. And yet still, I’m a big defender of human rights and fighting for your rights when you’ve been done harm.
However, the only valid proof they would accept for rape is if you came into the police office, jump on the desk, spread your legs (no panties), and say “I’m been raped, hurry before I lose the evidence!” And still people, and so court, would ask you “what have you done to provoke this?”
Well excuse me, but is wearing a bikini on a beach a reason for assault or rape? How come evolution has not set us free from those who believe that clothing have anything to do with assault and rape? The lowest of morals that could ever be, become with those questions. Yet, it somehow seems to be publicly accepted. Outrageous!
A woman can wear whatever the fuck (oh the irony) she wants. A woman has the right to say no. A women who says no means NO, not yes.
Assault and rape are very difficult to prove when you’re the victime. However, the act of any kind of assault is so barbaric, life ruining, wrong and painful that I believe that any kind of case about assault and rape should be set as an exemple. According statistics, chances are kinda pretty realistic that the man involved, might do something to women that is not right. The woman in this case could be his wife who’s just not in the mood. The woman could be the flirtageous collegue who’s only joking around. It could be anyone.
And women, stop playing this sick game. Burst out of your fairytale bubble thinking feminism isn’t needed anymore in Western countries, cause sexes are not equal. To not mention the fact that gender equality is still miles and miles away. Stop being so damn politely angry, but get really pissed off. And if not for yourself, do it for the other women who don’t get heard. Stick up with them girls! Girrrrrrlpower and all!
When you hold a gun and someone gets killed, you will get punished even though you’re not the killer. Holding the gun is enough reason to get punished. Only half of the population’s bodies are not taking serious at the moment. Nothing is more valuable than the bodies we house. We carry them with us through all of our days, countless events and experience a whole world of different feelings thorugh them. It is therefore, not an exaggeration to say that getting assaulted or getting raped often feels like murder. The victim loses all confidence and connextion to her own body and life passes on while nothing moves hers anymore.
Justice is not always searching for evidence. If one’s words and one’s bodies do not provide enough belief, than witnesses should never be heard, working with a public jury would be irrelevant and all the evidence in other cases should be at least 50% invalid.
So why can’t the legal system support women in their fight against these horrible crimes? Punishing people to make an exemple is not a rare event. It happens all the freaking time, but never to prove that women are heard, understood, supported and most of all, believed. Which makes me, disgusted, with the thought; are we more than public vagina to you? And if we are more, please prove it so I can doubt your evidence!